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Narcissism isn't bad to this world. And here next in the list "topics that disturbed me" we have a topic on selfish.

According to one doctor,

I often tell patients that the word “selfish” is given a bad name.
We are taught from childhood that it is best to share. We are also taught that it is better to give than to receive. However, a study at the University of Pennsylvania says otherwise. What they found was that people feel good when they are selfish. Before you decide to selfishly do every thing for your self it’s important to be aware of a caveat that comes with the findings in the study.
The fact is that behaving selfishly only feels good if it is not accompanied by guilt. In other words, guilt is a big obstacle to being selfish.

According to the dictionary, being selfish is defined as caring only about one’s self without regard to the needs of others. It is akin to being like the mythical character, Narcissus, staring lovingly at his reflection in a lake after having rejected a beautiful girl who loved him. That is where the word narcissism comes from. It means having self-love without regard for the feelings and dignity of other people.
The Judeo-Christian heritage teaches us that we must have regard for the needs of other people. That is why, when we act selfishly, we feel a strong sense of guilt. In other words, acting selfishly violates a deeply held value of the Western World.

On the other hand, there is something to be said for narcissism or selfishness. Even the great founder of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, stated that before we can give to others, we must give to ourselves. According to this line of thinking, we must see to our own needs first or we will be too drained and empty to give to others. How many women miss this important point? They are taught from early childhood onwards to suppress their needs while putting others first. She must put her husband, children and family first or she is not fulfilling her feminine role. Of course, much of this seems to have changed since feminist movement of the late 20th century. As a result, women can work and have careers. Yet, they still feel enormous pressure to be mothers and wives first and have enormous guilt if the roles of wife and mother are not neglected.

In psychotherapy, I have worked with many women who are depressed because they feel drained and frustrated from giving while not receiving. For example, it is common for wives to say nothing when their husbands spend the weekend playing golf instead of helping at home. In order to keep the family intact they say nothing for fear that the kids could suffer the loss of an intact home if their father leaves the family. In the end this strategy does not work and the marriage ends in divorce. That is one reason why we have a more than 50% rate of divorce. Men need to be less selfish by helping with the kids and taking over some household chores. Women need to be more selfish so that their needs are met and this can only happen if their men help out. Women must also realize that they have a right to care for their own needs.

So, remember, all of us need a certain amount of selfishness or narcissism in order to be able to share with and give to other people. Selfishness is not all bad.

Here it is.
Now add any ROW , sum is 155
then add any COLUMN, sum is 155
And try also
Diagonally, sum is 155
Now try with corners and sum is "you know it right"
Sum of Coloured boxes is 155.
Now Sum of Identical coloured boxes is 155


And it is 29 October 1997
29.10.1997
MY BIRTHDAY

Will talk to you later.

Do you love ice-cream? Do you love frozen dessert? I think now you're confused with the new term. Then without deferring look at the pack if you have one. The word "Ice cream" is no where written and you can find the word "frozen dessert". Here is the point.

Ice cream is a product that should be made from milk (Milk fat to be precise).But they use vegetable oil instead of milk for the preparation. If you have any please check the ingredients list. Now it's time to say OMG. Surprisingly, this is common with almost all leading manufacturers. So here is what court says "if the vendor uses anything other than dairy as core substance, it can't call it as ice cream." I think now you got to know that why the word "frozen dessert" came here. Vegetable fat is very cheap when compared with milk fat. But we are actually paying more cost to harm our health.

So from today, don't simply purchase any ice cream from a local or road side vendor and I suggest you to avoid ice cream if you're unaware of the brand. And this usually happens in all functions, parties, hotels etc. And say a big NO to buy one get one or discounted brand product.

Brands to avoid: Kwality walls, cornetto, Vadilal, Heritage and many more(Almost all)

Brands to prefer: Amul, Mother Diary etc.

My Choice(BEST): Haagen dazs, Baskin Robbins, Gelatissimo :)  (MY FAV)

To the Foodies: To the best of my knowledge Baskin Robbins has about 31 flavours  of varieties and Gelatissimo has more than 50 flavours available worldwide. Better Try them all like I DO ;)

For Reference: Amul vs Kwality walls case.

In India, which among these is the most overrated Job that fetches both the money and popularity?

I think this is going to be most debating topic I have ever written on my blog. I will be discussing on each of them when the results are out. If you're among the list then get ready for a bang.
 

http://www.easypolls.net/poll.html?p=5df64f98e4b068952e515e57

Please do vote and share. Pole ends on 25/12/2019.

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