Narcissism isn't bad to this world. And here next in the list "topics that disturbed me" we have a topic on selfish.

According to one doctor,

I often tell patients that the word “selfish” is given a bad name.
We are taught from childhood that it is best to share. We are also taught that it is better to give than to receive. However, a study at the University of Pennsylvania says otherwise. What they found was that people feel good when they are selfish. Before you decide to selfishly do every thing for your self it’s important to be aware of a caveat that comes with the findings in the study.
The fact is that behaving selfishly only feels good if it is not accompanied by guilt. In other words, guilt is a big obstacle to being selfish.

According to the dictionary, being selfish is defined as caring only about one’s self without regard to the needs of others. It is akin to being like the mythical character, Narcissus, staring lovingly at his reflection in a lake after having rejected a beautiful girl who loved him. That is where the word narcissism comes from. It means having self-love without regard for the feelings and dignity of other people.
The Judeo-Christian heritage teaches us that we must have regard for the needs of other people. That is why, when we act selfishly, we feel a strong sense of guilt. In other words, acting selfishly violates a deeply held value of the Western World.

On the other hand, there is something to be said for narcissism or selfishness. Even the great founder of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, stated that before we can give to others, we must give to ourselves. According to this line of thinking, we must see to our own needs first or we will be too drained and empty to give to others. How many women miss this important point? They are taught from early childhood onwards to suppress their needs while putting others first. She must put her husband, children and family first or she is not fulfilling her feminine role. Of course, much of this seems to have changed since feminist movement of the late 20th century. As a result, women can work and have careers. Yet, they still feel enormous pressure to be mothers and wives first and have enormous guilt if the roles of wife and mother are not neglected.

In psychotherapy, I have worked with many women who are depressed because they feel drained and frustrated from giving while not receiving. For example, it is common for wives to say nothing when their husbands spend the weekend playing golf instead of helping at home. In order to keep the family intact they say nothing for fear that the kids could suffer the loss of an intact home if their father leaves the family. In the end this strategy does not work and the marriage ends in divorce. That is one reason why we have a more than 50% rate of divorce. Men need to be less selfish by helping with the kids and taking over some household chores. Women need to be more selfish so that their needs are met and this can only happen if their men help out. Women must also realize that they have a right to care for their own needs.

So, remember, all of us need a certain amount of selfishness or narcissism in order to be able to share with and give to other people. Selfishness is not all bad.

In India, which among these is the most overrated Job that fetches both the money and popularity?

I think this is going to be most debating topic I have ever written on my blog. I will be discussing on each of them when the results are out. If you're among the list then get ready for a bang.
 

http://www.easypolls.net/poll.html?p=5df64f98e4b068952e515e57

Please do vote and share. Pole ends on 25/12/2019.

Image: Bust of Aeschylus, in The Tragic Drama of the Greeks by Arthur Elam Haigh (1896); Wikimedia Commons.

According to the History, a hungry eagle dropped a tortoise on Aeschylus bald head as it resemble a stone. You heard it right that was a normal tortoise and not a strong fictional ninja. An Eagle hunts in this way to break the shell and to access the meat. And according to one famous writer of the biography, Aeschylus has been rarely outside of his home and stayed inside all the day as he worried about his object falling death. At last the same thing happened. It became impossible to change his fate even for a such scholar.

Now coming back to me, I have seen many people worrying about their future without enjoying the present. I think this 'worry' is the new emerging disease. Can you change your future with a worry? No, then what's the use of thinking about your future in the beginning itself. Everything happens according to the fate followed by a faith. Globalised faith is simple. If you are enough talented to survive in this competitive world then you are regarded as a winner. If not you will be among the millions of failure list.

So just believe in yourself & Karma and move on without a worried life. "No one can rewrites their future nor retrieves their past"- This is the bloody truth I want to say.

First of all please try to come out from this Apparition.
I thought people were stupid, but trust me they are really Vacuous as dumbs.

You know what's the irony here, few people are now downloading editing tools for editing Allah and Jesus pics on the moon.

Now you just look at the bottom picture.

I'm the new God of this century. Do you start worshiping me? I know you won't, ok if you want me to bring something out from my mouth I'm ready to do that. I just need a couple of days magical assistance for it.

Praying to god is really a good thing. In a Parallel way trust in yourself. No god will do miracles for you. Instead trust in destiny and karma. Karma is just like a mirror. You can expect the same return of your doing and giving.

Note: I'm an Atheist. Yet I read many Holy books such as Bhagavad gita, Quran and The Bible, Books on Buddism(not yet completed).
Finally I came to one justification. And that is GOD IS JUST like will-o-the-wisp.

CBN(beloved Chief Minister) : I'm giving... I'm giving....

First of all, it's not his own property to give something or take decisions solely about AP state.
I really don't know what he gave and what he wants to do for his people of Andhra.
Clearly somehow he was fooled by Modi government and blamed by his people for accepting special packages instead of special status. I know about the great bonding & rivalries between CBN and Modi ji which were started before I was born. Considering it Modi ji took an advantage and perfectly executed a weapon on CBN. This is what actually happened.

Now when it comes to the main view of this post, I would like to precise you that generally special status is given for a state if and only if that perspective state is in a very bad, undeveloped, fallow and unexploited condition. But here AP state doesn't fall under that category. (I Know there is no established capital and more rural areas in AP. But still I won't accept AP as a backward state & I really don't know how this Stupid Congress agreed for it) This is what I want to clarify you.

Now at present there are Eleven states under this scheme (Assam, Arunachal pradesh, Sikkim, Tripura etc) and there are various factors which are considered such as tribal population, hill and difficult terrain and non viable nature of state finances.

Lastly I don't know whether AP is going to be a special state or not, but if this happens then other states such as Bihar, Chhattisgarh, Odissa will speed up their protests for special status. And if this continues you can't Imagine a developed India even in 2050.

Sorry for Grammatical errors. And I think my writing skills are more better than Chandrababu Naidu's English.

Okay. First of all I would like to thank my whatsapp friends for irritating me to change my profile pic into PURPLE color or to update some disgusting status about some kashmiri girl. That irritation lead me to write this post.
Here I would like to mention three points.

Point 1: I am not at all interested in such activities and I think there is no use at all.
Point 2: Digitally signing petitions or doing few rallys doesn't give a fucking change in stupid Indians mentality.
Point 3: People know only less truth about what really happened. Then the rest of the  truth is either created by some article editors or by rivaling politicians. Opposition always tries to damage the reputation of their rivals and down the ruling party.

Now I am going to talk about asifa's case.
As an Indian I felt very bad about what had Happened. In this case I can see the negligence of her parents. They already lost their two daughters in some accident.
They should take an immense care on their adopted child ie asifa. She must be educated and should be restricted to not cross some boundary limit. You know because of this step 90% of the crime probability is reduced. Here I am not talking about her freedom restrictions. It is all about her safety. If someone is bad you should simply stay away from that bad.
And I really want those criminals to be punished severely. But you know what happens if u participate in some rally or sign some petitions, you will be in a feeling that you did your part and you will feel pity for a day or a week. So because of that pity you will be mentally disturbed and distracted from your work. Instead of doing such activities you try to educate those dumb ass illiterates. So that you can decrease the crime rate and help a future criminal to transform into a complete good man like you.

Now coming to srireddy.

I really don't know why people are still abusing her because of naked protest infront of media. You know this type of protest is common in foreign countries. Even you can see more there. If India is equal in all aspects with other countries then why this should be differentiated. There is no such laws in Indian constitution about protests.

Secondly she is not only fighting for her. There are many telugu women who faced similar situations. She is trying to do justice for them. She is asking for 70% opportunities should be given to telugu born actresses. So because of that you can see many hidden talent actresses on big screens. Now they are just limited to shortfilms. But still I don't know why these all dumb ass people are interested in North indians or tamilians.

Lastly she is not a slut. She did everything(what ever may be it) just because of the passion towards films. If you have a great passion on something then you can definitely understand her situation. Life without passion is nothing in my opinion.
And an actress talent should be based on her expressions and acting. But not on her stardom genes or tails like reddy, chowdary or white skin tone.

And finally you stupid people, all the debates conducted by media are not just for TRP ratings. They want to show the present situation and injustice going in tollywood. You common people need not point out trained professionals.

Thanks for reading and sorry for the grammatical errors.

You can't change this society by burning candles but you can change it by burning bad from stupids. Now You can't do anything for Asifa so let's pray for her soul and by supporting srireddy so that you can change those stupid casting couch and can protect upcoming female artists.